I used to think helping was an act. Something you did when you had time. Something you offered when you [...]
These are selected essays shaped over time. They reflect how I think, work, and try to name things carefully.
Nothing here is written to keep pace. Everything here is written to hold.
Comfort has a sound. It’s the quiet hum most of us work toward. The thing we spend years chasing through [...]
There is a quiet obsession with overflow. We talk about “more than enough” as if it is the goal. As [...]
Most meaningful change happens quietly. Not through mass movements or sweeping takeovers, but through sustained attention given to actual people. [...]
Not all work is meant to travel fast. Some work is meant to hold. After years of making things, the [...]
Being against something is easy. Reaction requires very little preparation. You don’t need a plan. You don’t need depth. You [...]
Our culture celebrates prominence more than contribution. Everyone is encouraged to be the face, the leader, the boss. Supporting roles [...]
I’ve been noticing more and more the parallels between listening and drinking water. Both are essential. Both are often neglected. [...]
We live in a time where disagreement escalates quickly. Emotion, bitterness, partial information, and forced certainty are often used as [...]
There is a cost to naming things incorrectly, even when the intention is good. In moments of pressure, speed often [...]